Tuesday, September 30, 2008

¿ERES INFIEL, O ALGUIEN QUE AMA DEMASIADO?


¿Hasta que punto pueden las personas ser monogámicas? ¿Será que somos seres infieles por naturaleza, o simplemente amamos demasiado? Una vez, una amiga me dijo algo muy sensato: "El corazón de los hombres es como un autobús... Caben todas"
La realidad del asunto es muy compleja, pues muchos consideran la infidelidad algo inaceptable en la relación, así como exíste otro grupo de personas que estarían dispuestos y dispuestas a perdonar un infidelidad. Claro, mucho se dice del tema, pero hasta que no se vive en carne propia no se puede opinar.
Ahora bien, qué hay de cierto en aquello de que es preferible la infidelidad sexual a la emocional. Mucho se ha debatido sobre estos dos tipos de infidelidad - sin contar con las nuevas: La infidelidad cibernética - lo cierto es que, las dos son un falta a ese "juramento" hipocrático que se hace al incio de una relación.
¿Por qué somos infieles? ¿Será que buscamos afuera, lo que no conseguimos dentro de la relación? ó simplemente buscamos un poco de variedad en el asunto. Si la infidelidad es sexual, creo que las personas buscan satisfacer ciertos gustos que - por mala comunicación - no están siendo atendidos dentro de la relación. Pienso que debemos ser permisivos y abiertos a los gustos de nuestras parejas, pues de lo contrario, inevitablemente sucederá el engaño.
Entonces... ¿Qué pasa cuando una de las partes es totalmente permisiva y aún así ocurre el engaño? Ahí es donde entra la infidelidad emocional. A veces las personas están tan inmersas en otros asuntos, que por supuesto descuidan sus relaciones; y es cuando el "ave de rapiña" o mejor conocido "la tercera parte" hace su entrada triunfal ofreciendo el afecto que la otra persona necesita.
Cualquiera sea el caso, creo que en una relación MADURA, este tipo de cosas se deberían de discutir antes de llegar a cometer el adulterio y arruinar lo que pudo convertir en una relación modelo.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

PLEASE DON'T SAY YOU'RE SORRY... OK?



Je suis désolée
Lo siento
Ik ben droevig
Sono spiacente
Perdóname

I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before

I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say you're sorry
I've heard it all before
And I can take care of myself
I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say 'Forgive me'
I've seen it all before
And I can't take it anymore

You're not half the man you think you are
Save your words because you've gone too far
I've listened to your lies and all your stories (Listen to your stories)
You're not half the man you'd like to be

I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say you're sorry
I've heard it all before
And I can take care of myself
I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say 'Forgive me'
I've seen it all before
And I can't take it anymore

Don't explain yourself 'cause talk is cheap
There's more important things than hearing you speak
You stayed because I made it so convenient
Don't explain yourself, you'll never see

Gomen nasais
Mujhe maaf kardo
Przepraszam
Sli'kha
Forgive me...

I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before

I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say you're sorry
I've heard it all before
And I can take care of myself
I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say 'Forgive me'
I've seen it all before
And I can't take it anymore

I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say you're sorry
(Don't explain yourself cause talk is cheap)
I've heard it all before, And I can take care of myself
(There's more important things than hearing you speak)
I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know
Please don't say 'forgive me'

I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before
I've heard it all before

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

JUST STAND UP



The heart is stronger than you think
It’s like it can go through anything
And even when you think it can’t it finds a way to still push on, though

Sometimes you want to run away
Ain’t got the patience for the pain
And if you don’t believe it look into your heart the beat goes on

I’m tellin’ you that
Things get better
Through whatever
If you fall, dust it off, don’t let up
Don’t you know you can go be your own miracle
You need to know

CHORUS

If the mind keeps thinking you’ve had enough
But the heart keeps telling you don’t give up
Who are we to be questioning, wondering what is what
Don’t give up THROUGH IT ALL, JUST STAND UP!

It’s like we all have better days
Problems getting all up in your face
Just because you go through it
Don’t mean it got to take control, no
You ain’t gotta find no hiding place

Because the heart can beat the hate
Don’t wanna let your mind keep playin’ you
And sayin’ you can’t go on

I’m tellin’ you that
Things get better
Through whatever
If you fall, dust it off, don’t let up
Don’t you know you can go be your own miracle
You need to know


CHORUS

You don’t gotta be a prisoner in your mind
If you fall, dust it off You can live your life… Yeah
Let your heart be your guide
Yeah yeah yeah

And you will know that you’re good if you trust in the good
Everything will be alright, yeah
Light up the dark, if you follow your heart
And it will get better
Through whatever

CHORUS

You got it in you, find it within
You got in now, find it within now
You got in you, find it within
You got in now, find it within now
You got in you, find it within Find it within you, find it within
THROUGH IT ALL, JUST STAND UP!